His friends say he’s interested, but it really feels like he’s not. There’s various things you can do to help point him in the right direction.

Wait until the end of a great date and say to him, “I had so much fun tonight.

Being able to passionately talk without being cut off is borderline orgasmic.2.

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Shy guys are congruent – their shyness reflects across their life. As long as the friends are close to him, they are a reliable source.

Be wary of being used if he is hassling you for sex. There is a ‘bro code’, where guys know not to push it if you’re not the right girl.

Or maybe, you have no problem getting into a relationship with a shy guy, but long-term need to see his masculine side come through for things to last.

There are numerous permutations, and you have to decide where your line is – i.e.

There’s all sorts of ways to help him with green lights and guide him (hopefully) down the path.

Still, if you’re getting uncomfortable having to do all this or making all the moves yourself, dating a shy guy may not be for you.This is important, because the way you get a shy guy is the same way you look desperate to a normal guy. In a normal dating situation, the man will generally do most of the work moving things forward.Courting a shy guy is about you doing a lot of the work for him. He’ll ask you out, he’ll lean in and kiss you, and at some point, he’ll probably try to sleep with you.Not just for him either; it goes for his would-be date, too.Shy guys have potential as great partners, but courtship and dating shy men has its challenges, something you must be aware of if snagging a shy guy is your plan. The biggest mistake I see women make trying to date a shy guy is confusing him with a normal guy who’s just not interested.What if he’s showing a lot of signs of shyness, but still wants to have sex?