[Read: Shy guy guide – How do I know if he likes me if he won’t even talk to me?] How to flirt with a shy guy and get him to open up Before you can hope to make a shy guy yours, you’ll have to flirt with him in order to see if there’s any real chemistry.He seems to always be in your peripherals but never near enough to strike up a conversation. Even if they have been taught how, just like calculus, some people just still don’t get it. The whole he-must-come-talk-to-me-first is stupid and cannot apply to every situation, especially with shy guys.

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It is a bit creepy, but not really when you’re the one that’s been posting #sickselfies post on your Instagram whinging about your blocked nose. Don’t get creeped out, remember that you’ve done your equal creepy share of stalking other people’s Facebook pages too.

He’s got your social media content down to a tee and have even scrolled all the way down your Facebook timeline to your highschool prom photos. You probably see him stealing your glances, or find yourself bumping knuckles at the serviette holder about to take the same serviette you were about to grab. They’ve never seen a “playbook” or have other guys teach them how to approach girls. After all, you’re not nervous or scared of approaching men, why not you do it?

Because at this point, all you know is that you’re attracted to him.

Knowing how to flirt with a shy guy and getting him to open up to you can be really hard if you don’t know how to go about it.

When the guy is shy you have no choice but to be patient.

Guide him in your conversations and hope that eventually he’ll be eased into talking to you and you get to experience his real awesome self instead of a fish out of water. ” without you ever remembering telling him that you’ve been fighting a cold for the past week.

The result is him doing very very subtle things that either do not even show up as a blip on your man-radar or things that make you question his interest but not obvious enough that you end up bothering thinking about it.

He is not one for the I-love-you-on-a-stadium-score-board nor is he one to blatantly ask you to go on some extravagant first date.

He will open up to you in a way that is different to every other relationship in his life.

Shy guys are probably the most sensitive creatures around which they make them awesome lovers for girls because that means they wont be as idiotic when it comes to your feelings.

Your conversations wont flow flawlessly with him, well how can it when his heart is pumping so fast that the blood doesn’t stay long enough in his brain to do their thing?