Being in love typically means you experience an attraction towards someone while feeling love is usually for those in long-term relationships who have formed lasting connections with someone.

After all, it’s tough to learn years of information in just a few short weeks.

On the subject of planning out your lives, a huge step in any relationship is to move in together. Your bills would be halved while you’ll also get to come home to the one you love every day.

Maybe they are set on recreating Jurassic Park while you suffer deinophobia?

(That’s a fear of dinosaurs.) These are issues that won’t go away by just ignoring them.

Then this new person with whom you’re so captivated calls you up, or sends you a text, or perhaps sits you down to tell you something you never expected to hear: he thinks the two of you are moving too fast. You’re probably surprised and hurt, wondering if it means the end of this new relationship in which you’ve already invested so much. It may not be pleasant to hear “we’re moving too fast,” but contrary to what may be your first thought, that phrase isn’t always code for “things are over.” Rather, it may be an opportunity to look at some common mistakes you may be making in your rush towards intimacy. After a month of dating, everything seems perfect; the two of you just seem to click on so many levels.

Then this new person with whom you’re so captivated calls you up, or sends you a text, or perhaps sits you down to tell you something you never expected to hear: he thinks the two of you are moving too fast. Clinical psychologist and relationship expert Gerry Heisler notes that while your “intention may be to show how much (you) care, but the reality is (you) bury the other…

His work has appeared in the "Los Angeles Times," "The Guardian" and "Gawker." He holds a Ph D in religious history from UCLA.

This could also be the same for mapping out your future.

in (your) eagerness to establish the relationship, (you) may not be reading cues that are there.” Take the initiative to ask whether your texts, calls or physical affection are too much to soon.