It’s amazing how we can be married ten, twenty, thirty, forty, or even fifty plus years and still find there is much we don’t know about each other.Some experts say it’s because we’ve lost the art of conversation.

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• What would you most like people to remember you for after you die?

• What are the five things you are most thankful for in your life right now?

Others say it’s because we don’t allow it to continue after we marry.

We allow everyday living to separate and distance us instead.

(You can ask additional questions during other times you set aside.) • If you could store up only one hour’s worth of memory in your mind, which hour of our marriage would you want to remember? • If we could just drop what we’re doing and go do something fun, what would it be? • If you didn’t have to worry about making a living, what would you most like to do for the rest of your life?

• If you could have witnessed any biblical event, which one would you choose? • Which strengths in your life bring you the greatest satisfaction? • What is one of the most adventurous things you’ve ever done? • What are five essential values we want our children to embrace above all others? • When making decisions, do you put more trust in facts or in feelings? • What do you consider to be your greatest strengths? • What is usually the first thing that comes to your mind when you think about God?

We were each the first person met from the site, and we hit it off right away.